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B ME Bites 20: Master Stress Relief with Easy Daily Practices - The #FAB3 Way
How a simple daily practice can reduce stress in just 3 minutes
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This weekâs B ME Bites Trivia Question:
What phenomenon describes the tendency to attribute our successes to internal factors and our failures to external factors?
a) Self-Serving Bias
b) Fundamental Attribution Error
c) Actor-Observer Bias
d) False Consensus Effect
Welcome to edition #20 of B ME Bites! This weekâs edition introduces the #FAB3 practice - a simply daily practice that incorporates several of the best mindset tools to help you reduce stress and improve your life exponentially.
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Master Stress Relief with Easy Daily Practices - The #FAB3 Way
How a simple daily practice can reduce stress in just 3 minutes
Over the past weeks, various tools have been explored that individually, when implemented into your life, create a positive impact. These include meditation, visualisation, mindfulness, gratitude, self love, journaling and many more. Whatâs even better though, is that the more of these tools that you implement over time, the greater the impact. As you layer each tool on top of the other, they compound, and as they do, the impact they have on your life magnifies.
You have to actually implement them though. It can seem hard and overwhelming at times to implement every tool that you learn can be of benefit to you, especially when you are time poor, which many people are. Using the S.T.E.P.S Formula in the implementation phase makes it so much easier and specifically, the E, which stands for Easy. How can you make it Easy to do? The easier you make it, the more successful you will be in implementing the tool into your life.
Some ways to make implementing Easy to do, is to:
Create some kind of ritual around it
Use a catchy name, alliteration or an incantation to remember it
Combine complementary tools where possible
Use Habit Science
Introducing #FAB3! Whatâs that you ask? Itâs a way to make it Easy to implement 3 extremely beneficial tools into your life:
Self love
Gratitude
Visualisation
So how do you do it? Firstly, letâs start with the catchy rhyme to make it Easy to remember:
#FAB3: 333 to my most FABulous me!
333 stands for:
3 minutes
3 times per day
3 things - Self love, Gratitude, Visualisation
Putting it all together, it goes like this. Three times a day, you take a total of 3 minutes to focus on doing:
One minute of self love
One minute of gratitude; and
One minute of visualisation.
You can do the 3 minutes at any time of the day that works for you. You can do it anywhere. For each category, you can do anything that fulfils your interpretation of the category. For example, one minute of self love could be doing Louise Hayâs mirror work, journaling around self love, putting lotion on your body. Anything that you believe is showing yourself love. One minute of gratitude can be writing in a gratitude journal or simply saying to yourself or out loud what you are grateful for. Visualisation could be looking at your vision board, watching a mind movie or closing your eyes wherever you are and visualising yourself when youâve achieved the goal you want to achieve.
Sounds Easy right? Thatâs the whole point! If you want to make it even Easier to implement, at least in the beginning, the #FAB3 Daily Journal has been designed specifically to complement the practice and also adds in a BONUS tool of journaling. It has a page for morning, day and evening, with journaling prompts around each of the 3 categories. Itâs a beautiful resource created to enhance the experience. Itâs a win, win, win, win! You can download it for free and print it if you would like, or use it as a guide in conjunction with your own journal if you prefer.
Do you already have practices in place around self love, gratitude, visualisation and journaling? Could #FAB3 enhance or help you implement these practices?
Reader Spotlight
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Weekly Challenge
Your mission for this week, if you choose to accept it, is to do the following:
Download the #FAB3 Daily Journal and print it if you would like, or use it as a guide in conjunction with your own journal if you prefer.
Perform the #FAB3 practice at least 3 times in the next week, using your journal to guide you.
If you need some help, feel free to hit reply - letâs help you get started if youâre stuck!
B ME Bites is deliberately sent on a Friday morning (Aussie time) so that where ever you are in the world, you have the weekend to give yourself the gift of implementing a small change towards a better you. What will that small change be? Is there a change that you have been trying to make and havenât yet succeeded? Give it another go, applying the above - you can do it!
Resource Roundup
You can download your #FAB3 Daily Journal by clicking on the picture below:
Below is a resource list that has been created with you in mind. Whenever something new that could be helpful is discovered or created, itâs added to the list, so check it out from time to time. If youâre strapped for time, once you open the page below, click on Resource List in the top menu, then click on the âHealth Toolsâ link for a list of items that could be helpful on your path to a better you.
The answer to this weekâs trivia question is:
Answer: a) Self-Serving Bias
Self-Serving Bias is the tendency to attribute positive outcomes to internal factors (e.g., one's own abilities) and negative outcomes to external factors (e.g., bad luck). This bias helps maintain self-esteem and a positive self-image.
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Warm regards,
Shari Ware Chief Encouragement Officer at B ME Bites
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